A woman has revealed how she met her partner while looking for a man to “share” in the bedroom with her husband.
Gerald and Arizona make adult content together, and the pair are in an ethically non-monogamous relationship, meaning that they both date other people with their partner’s consent.
Gerald was married for 10 years, and when that relationship ended, like many, he jumped on a dating app.
He was ready to give up when he came across Arizona, who was married at the time, six years ago.
Arizona was looking to date a man on her own, and “occasionally share with her husband.”
“I was married to my high school sweetheart. I had been with that guy — at that time it was about nine years,” she told Truly.
She said she was looking to also date someone more regularly and connect with them emotionally, with Gerald being the first person she’d intentionally dated.
Gerald said he knew immediately after seeing Arizona for the first time in person that he was “in trouble.”
For a period of time, Arizona, her ex-husband, and Gerald lived as a throuple, but that soon ended. Arizona realized that she had a stronger connection with Gerald, and the pair ended up together.
Arizona said she started filming adult content as soon as she turned 18, but she didn’t invest her time into it until 2022.
Gerald started off as an administrative assistant, but by the following year, people were requesting content of the pair together.
The first day Gerald uploaded content, he claimed on the YouTube series that he was doxxed and fired from his role of 15 years.
The pair have been creating adult content full-time ever since, with Gerald saying it helped him come out as a bisexual man.
However, Gerald said he has faced biphobia, revealing that he’s often told he isn’t “gay enough” or “straight enough.”
Rhonda and Steven, Arizona’s parents, said that when Arizona first told them she was exploring ethical non-monogamy, they were sceptical and had a lot of questions.
“I thought y’all were crazy. I was worried,” Rhonda said when Arizona asked what her parents first thought when she told them that she and her now-ex-husband had a boyfriend.
“I couldn’t see a world where somebody wasn’t going to get hurt.“
Arizona said her parents handled it with a lot of grace and thought, with Rhonda adding that the way her daughter approached talking about the topic made her realize how important it was to her.
Steven said the impulse was to ask why and get a definitive answer, but he understood that it might not be for him to understand.
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